Breakup Decoder
Insight for Healing Hearts
Drop in your last month of chats to see why it fell apart and how to move forward.
Step-by-step, starting today.Join the Early-Access Waitlist
First 50 reports are free — Onboarding starts July 1st, 2025
See What Went Wrong
Decode Your Attachment Style
Attachment Style Snapshot
See you and your ex side-by-side—dismissive, fearful, anxious, secure—so patterns finally click.Toxic-Quote Timeline
Speech-bubble call-outs mark the exact phrases that escalated conflict.Recovery Plan
A personalized, day-by-day plan crafted for your attachment style and your partner’s, guiding you through 10-minute exercises that calm triggers, close security gaps, and rebuild confidence from the very first day.Privacy, Guaranteed
Your file is encrypted, redacted locally, and auto-deleted after your PDF is generated.
How Breakup Decoder Works — Backed by Relationship Science
✓ Rooted in Attachment Theory – Draws on 50 + years of research into secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant patterns.✓ Language-Signal Model – Scores 60 + empirically validated cues (protest phrases, withdrawal cues, proximity bids, breakup language) shown to predict adult bonds and conflict dynamics.✓ Conversation-Level Context – Goes beyond isolated keywords; it evaluates timing, tone shifts, and turn-taking—exactly what recent text-analysis studies recommend.✓ Clinical Benchmarks – Recovery drills map to outcomes used in peer-review trials (lower rumination, reduced attachment anxiety, mood lift).
Evidence-based insights, privacy-first processing, and a personalized action plan—so you move from confusion to clarity in minutes.
Privacy You Can Trust
End-to-End Encryption
Every chat export is AES-256 encrypted in transit and at rest.Auto-Delete Policy
Your file and raw data is permanently erased 24 hours after your PDF is generated.Personal Info Anonymized
Full names, phone numbers and any identifying details are scrubbed before analysis—your story is private from the very first step.
Early User Feedback
“It felt like a therapist summarized our entire relationship - except it popped out in 15 minutes.”
— Jill S., 34“I finally saw the pattern behind our fights. Huge relief.”
— Mark T., 29“I spent so much time trying to understand and it was just too much. It really helped me make sense of it all.”
— Ava K., 27
Claim Your Free Relationship Report
Early Access Ends Soon
(Launch price: $20 per report)
Upload your chats today and get your personalized analysis 100% free.
Limited beta spots remain — once they're gone, reports will cost $20 each.
FAQ
| How do I export my texts? | Use iMazing or other third party software to export the full content of your message history. Android guides are linked in the upload e-mail. |
| Will you keep my messages? | No. Files are encrypted in transit, redacted for PII (personally identifyable information) and raw files are auto-deleted 24 hours after your PDF is generated. |
| How many free reports are available? | The first 50 early access user reports will be 100% free as we refine our analysis and report generation tools. |
| How much will it cost after launch? | Public launch price will be $20 per report. |
| When will I get my report? | We start onboarding and processing messages on June 1st, 2025. You'll receive a personal upload link, and your PDF will land in your inbox. |
| What if I'm still talking to my ex? | The report spots live patterns too. Export up to yesterday's messages and we'll show current triggers plus a recovery roadmap you can start today. |
| Is this a substitute for therapy? | No, Breakup Decoder is a self-help tool, not medical advice. Many users share the PDF with their therapist or relationship coach for deeper work. |
This tool is for personal reflection and educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy, nor does it constitute a psychological diagnosis. You are solely responsible for the data you upload. If you are in emotional distress or dealing with trauma, we recommend seeking help from a licensed mental health provider.
Thank you!
What happens next?
Check your inbox – Look for the “Verify your email for Breakup Decoder” message; if it’s missing, peek in Spam or Promotions.
Click the “Confirm my email” button – This locks in your account; the link works for 24 hours.
Receive upload instructions – A second mail titled “Upload your chat history — Step 2” arrives with a private link and export guide.
Upload your messages – Drag-and-drop your file; a green “Upload complete” checkmark means we’ve got it.
AI at work – Your PDF Relationship Report lands within ≈15 minutes; just reply if anything looks off.
Privacy Policy
Last updated: May 17 20251. Who we are
Breakup Decoder (“Company,” “we,” “our”) provides an AI-powered relationship-analysis service at breakupdecoder.com (the “Service”).
Contact: [email protected]2. Information we collect• Account data
— Email address
— (Optional) first name• Chat uploads
— Text conversations you voluntarily drag-and-drop (TXT / CSV / JSON)• Derived reports
— PDF and dashboard metrics generated from your chats• Marketing & usage data
— UTM tags, email-open events, ad clicks
— IP address, browser type, pages visited, cookie IDs---3. How we use your data
1. Generate your Relationship Report and 30-day roadmap.
2. Operate, secure, and improve the Service (bug fixes, system tuning without storing raw data).
3. Communicate – verification emails, product updates, early-access surveys.---4. Legal bases / Notice of collection
* Contract – needed to deliver the report you request.
* Legitimate interest – analytics, fraud detection, product improvement.
* Consent – marketing emails, cookies.
* Legal obligation – compliance with law-enforcement or tax rules.---5. Retention & deletion
* Chat uploads – Raw Data Auto-deleted 24 hours after your PDF is generated.
* Derived analysis and reports – Stored (encrypted) for up to 12 months so you can re-download; deleted on request.
* Account & marketing data – Retained until you delete your account or 24 months of inactivity.---6. Third-party processors
We never sell personal data. We rely on vetted service providers such as:
— Amazon Web Services (cloud hosting, USA)
— MailChimp (marketing email, USA)
— Google Analytics (cookie-free analytics, EU)
— Stripe (payments after launch, USA)---7. International transfers
Data is stored in the United States.---8. Security measures
* TLS 1.2+ encryption in transit
* AES-256 encryption at rest
* Redaction – full names, numbers, and PII stripped before analysis.
Terms of Service
Last updated: May 23, 2025Important – By accessing or using Breakup Decoder, you agree to these Terms.
If you do not agree, do not use the Service.This tool is for personal reflection and educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy, nor does it constitute psychological, medical, or legal advice. You are solely responsible for the content you upload and how you use the resulting report. If you are in emotional distress or processing trauma, we strongly recommend seeking help from a licensed mental health provider.1. Definitions
“Service” – the breakupdecoder.com website, its web application, and related tools, reports, and emails.“Report” – the visual summary, PDF, and/or dashboard created from user-submitted data.“User,” “you,” “your” – any person who accesses or uses the Service.“We,” “us,” “our,” “Company” – Serilis, LLC.2. Eligibility
The Service is available only to individuals 18 years or older and residing in the United States.By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you meet these eligibility requirements.3. Account & Verification
A valid email and verification may be required to access certain features.You are responsible for all activity under your account and must keep your login credentials secure.4. User Content & Privacy
You retain ownership of any chat data or messages you upload.You grant us a limited, revocable license to process that content only for the purpose of generating your Report and operating the Service.We auto-delete raw message uploads within 24 hours of Report creation, unless otherwise required for debugging or user support.We do not train AI models on your private data or share it with third parties.You agree that you have the legal right to upload the content, including messages involving others.5. Sensitive Information
Do not upload content containing:Personally identifiable information (PII) beyond what is necessaryFinancial, medical, or legal documentsThe Service attempts to redact PII but cannot guarantee 100% success.6. License to You
We grant you a non-exclusive, non-transferable license to use and retain your Report for personal, non-commercial use.You may share your Report voluntarily with a partner or mental health provider.You may not redistribute, modify, or sell the Report.7. Acceptable Use
You agree not to:Upload data you do not have the right to use or share.Harass, stalk, impersonate, or defame any person using the Service.Use the Service to make medical or legal decisions about others.Reverse-engineer, scrape, or disrupt the Service in any way.Use automated tools to access the Service without permission.8. Emotional Risk Disclaimer
The Report may reference themes such as emotional neglect, trauma, or attachment dysfunction.The insights provided are interpretive and speculative and not authoritative or diagnostic.You acknowledge that emotional impact may occur and use the Service at your own discretion.9. Therapist Mode / Shared Reports
If you choose to share your Report with a partner or therapist, you accept all responsibility for how it is interpreted or used.Reports are written neutrally, but they are not guaranteed to be suitable for couples' discussion without professional support.10. Beta / Early Access Disclaimer
During beta, features and access may change or break without notice.You may receive Reports for free or discounted pricing during testing phases.After public launch, pricing will be posted clearly on the Service and is subject to change.11. Payments & Refunds
Payments are one-time fees per Report.All sales are final, except in cases of delivery failure.Refund requests must be submitted within 7 days of purchase if the Report was not delivered.12. Termination
You may stop using the Service at any time.We may suspend or terminate access if you violate these Terms or abuse the Service.Data may be deleted upon termination, except where legally required to retain.13. Analytics & Improvement
We may collect anonymized data about how users interact with the Service (e.g., clicks, time on page, usage patterns) to improve functionality.No message content or Report content is stored for analytics unless explicitly consented to.14. Disclaimers
The Service is provided “as is” and “as available.”We disclaim all warranties, including fitness for a particular purpose, accuracy, or suitability for therapeutic use.We do not guarantee compatibility with every device, browser, or email client.15. Limitation of Liability
To the fullest extent permitted by law:We are not liable for any indirect, incidental, or emotional damages arising from the use of the Service or its outputs.In no event shall our liability exceed the total amount paid by you for the Report that gave rise to the claim.16. Changes to These Terms
We may update these Terms at any time.Continued use of the Service after a revision means you accept the updated Terms.
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